Nov 15, 2000

Child Care

The exploits of a young girl excited a reader of my newsletter. He wrote to tell of the "phenom," an 11-year-old who was winning races in his area. He asked if I'd like more details on her for a possible story.

I declined, telling the well-meaning writer that encouraging kids to run is healthy, but dwelling on their victories and records at this age is not. I wish the young lady a long and productive career, but prefer not to celebrate her successes just now.

I've seen lots of prodigies come and go, and they seldom thrive on a publicity blitz. Also there's often the heavy hand of a parent or coach at the child's back, and I don't want to encourage such pushing.

The writer responded: "I think your position on the phenom issue makes a lot of sense. Our state's 1999 girls high school cross-country champion-- as a freshman, no
less -- is not even running this year. I'm certain it is the result of too much publicity and too much pressure too early."

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